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Question: How do I communicate with a swinger or swinging couple whose profile I like.
After you have selected the swinger profile you wish to communicate with. You will find the Post facility at the top of the screen.
Write a short message which includes the following;
Your Intentions i.e. I or we would like to meet you for coffee etc.
Wait for a response. An APGIC swinger is expected to respond even if it's just to say "No Thanks"
HEALTH
Question: Are all APGIC Swingers HIV negative?
No known swingers with HIV positive status are permitted to be an APGIC member.
Question: What if I am HIV positive or have one of the STD's
No known HIV carriers are permitted to be an APGIC member.
If you have one of the curable STD's once you have recovered from it, your membership will then be reinstated.
Your doctor will council you as to your best options.
RULES
Question: What happens to an APGIC Swinger breaking the APGIC ground rules?
You would have to report the incident giving all details as to time & place as well as details of the transgression. If there are witnessing APGIC members they to would have to give a report.
Based on your report / reports we would take the following steps if we feel the incident warrants action.
- For an incident where you are the only complainant, we would file the complaint on record for six months. If there are further complaints about the same swinger, swingers or swinging couple from others within the six months, the offenders will be given a warning.
- For an incident where there is more than one complainant, we will issue a warning to the offending member.
The number of warnings received over the past year will be shown on the offending swingers profile. Other members will be able to view the reason for the warnings. If a swinger, swingers or swinging couple receives more than 2 warnings during this period, their APGIC membership will be terminated.
ETIQUETTE
Do not harass other Swingers:
"NO" really means "NO" here.
Remember at all times that the "weaker" swinger Rules:
Swinging is not a free for all, you will have to go on what the "weaker" swinger will or will not allow.
Do not proceed with any form of interaction unless the intended swinger or swinging couple/s have indicated in some way that its ok.
Back off immediately if no indication to join is given.
Remain respectful at all times:
This not only applies to others swinging participants but towards your partner as well.
At all times be considerate:
This not only applies to others swinging participants but towards your partner as well.
Only act in a responsible manner:
Assume that all swinger and swinging couples within the alternative lifestyle practice safe sex unless specifically advised otherwise.
Do not attempt to penetrate without the use of a condom unless it has been mutually agreed upon not to use condoms.
In a cross touching environment disease can spread like wild fire, so if you are not 100% sure of your health status, DO NOT participate.
Use different hands for different swinger partners or wash them in between changes.
Use different hands or fingers for vaginal / penis and anal touching
Change condoms when having multiple swinging sex partners.
Stop immediately when requested:
Here size does not count as even the smallest swinger has the power to stop you.
Show your desire but wait for an invitation to participate:
Approach a swinger or group of swingers or swinging couples so they are aware you wish to join them.
If one swinger in that group invites you to join, interact with that swinger first and so on.
If you need to attract a swinger or swinging couples attention touch their arm first, if they pull away or do not respond favourably, back off immediately.
Declare all intentions upfront:
Do not surprise swingers, like trying anal sex without any warning.
Do not touch without consent:
It is not a free for all.
Swingers can find themselves in very vulnerable situations where it is very possible to take advantage of the situation, DO NOT
Do not penetrate without consent:
With or without a condom this is a serious offence.
Swingers can find themselves in very vulnerable situations where it is very possible to take advantage of the situation, DO NOT
Gentlemen be fair and warn others you are about to have an orgasm.
During oral sex if you have not clearly established if you are allowed to ejaculate in the mouth assume that you are not.
Indicate your imminent ejaculation, if it is indicated that it is ok, enjoy. If not DO NOT ejaculate in the mouth or over that swinger or swinging couple.
Do not harass others:
"NO" really means "NO" here.
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