More Swinger Etiquette & Rules for the Alternative Lifestyle

Do not harass other Swingers:

"NO" really means "NO" here.

Remember at all times that the "weaker" swinger Rules:

Swinging is not a free for all, you will have to go on what the "weaker" swinger will or will not allow.

Do not proceed with any form of interaction unless the intended swinger or swinging couple/s have indicated in some way that its ok.

Back off immediately if no indication to join is given.

Remain respectful at all times:

This not only applies to others swinging participants but towards your partner as well.

At all times be considerate:

This not only applies to others swinging participants but towards your partner as well.

Only act in a responsible manner:

Assume that all swinger and swinging couples within the alternative lifestyle practice safe sex unless specifically advised otherwise.

Do not attempt to penetrate without the use of a condom unless it has been mutually agreed upon not to use condoms.

In a cross touching environment disease can spread like wild fire, so if you are not 100% sure of your health status, DO NOT participate.

Use different hands for different swinger partners or wash them in between changes.

Use different hands or fingers for vaginal / penis and anal touching

Change condoms when having multiple swinging sex partners.

Stop immediately when requested:

Here size does not count as even the smallest swinger has the power to stop you.

Show your desire but wait for an invitation to participate:

Approach a swinger or group of swingers or swinging couples so they are aware you wish to join them.

If one swinger in that group invites you to join, interact with that swinger first and so on.

If you need to attract a swinger or swinging couples attention touch their arm first, if they pull away or do not respond favourably, back off immediately.

Declare all intentions upfront:

Do not surprise swingers, like trying anal sex without any warning.

Do not touch without consent:

It is not a free for all.

Swingers can find themselves in very vulnerable situations where it is very possible to take advantage of the situation, DO NOT

Do not penetrate without consent:

With or without a condom this is a serious offence.

Swingers can find themselves in very vulnerable situations where it is very possible to take advantage of the situation, DO NOT

Gentlemen be fair and warn others you are about to have an orgasm.

During oral sex if you have not clearly established if you are allowed to ejaculate in the mouth assume that you are not.

Indicate your imminent ejaculation, if it is indicated that it is ok, enjoy. If not DO NOT ejaculate in the mouth or over that swinger or swinging couple.

Do not harass others:

"NO" really means "NO" here.